Oh, I'm not holding grudges. But I wouldn't let the subject go by without wanting the person to admit they did it. If they apologize, then sure, maybe we can be friends. If they make a joke about it, I'll say, well, maybe I should tell you how it affected me. If they still don't get it? Then I'll take a pass on a relationship. And like I said, it would depend on who it is. Some people did more damage than others.
So, yeah, I'd forgive very easily, but I have to have a reason first.
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So, yeah, I'd forgive very easily, but I have to have a reason first.