Go watch
this, especially if you have little girls (Warning: could be somewhat triggery for people with eating/body image disorders).
Also
This one, which actually had me close to tears.
This one really did make me cry. I
hate when that happens.
ETA: Fixed duplicate link.
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It's really an international tragedy that has to be stopped somehow. I don't know what it is, but I'm going to buy Dove products, even if they do plug Wal-Mart along with it (I draw the line at Wal-Mart). If Dove wanted a successful ad campaign, they've got one, at least as far as I'm concerned.
I ETA'ed a couple of more films. The third one is heartbreaking.
You've seen the Beautiful video, right? Makes me cry every time. The girl with the braces? Was me (only with ADD weirdness instead of braces). I used to have an icon of her. I should really start using it again.
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(I'm thinking you didn't mean this to happen, but the second one is the same link as the third one.)
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I'll look them up. Google Is My Friend. :) Also, fixed the link! I sent a link to the last video to
Actually, ALL these women are really beautiful ladies (Daughters Hannah and Mary, DIL Trish, and Trish's gorgeous Mum Marilyn, L to R). None of them fit the pattern of what's fashionable because none are inclusively tall, slender, and fine-boned. But gorgeous? You betcha, every one of them. And not just because they're awesome. *loves* And even if they were ugly (which is SUCH a subjective description), would that make them, or me, or you, less? Uh-uh. I have to remember that myself sometime when I look in the mirror and expect to see twenty-four and find forty-six staring me in the, um. Face.
I've been thinking more and more about how our very selves are formed very young and really would love to do something to help change the way children are taught to view themselves, and by extension other people. I'm a
victimsurvivor of bullying, so I'm really sensitive to pressures that kids Be "Normal", whatever that is. And sometimes "Normal" is impossible to achieve without a. Photoshop, b. Surgery, an c. Tons of money. And even with all those, there's really no such thing. :/no subject
Also, if you saw the three of them - Hannah, Mary, and Trish - and didn't know their ages, it would be hard to know who was oldest, etc.
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All pictures had a before and after example, presumably so you could see how convincingly these people could doctor any photograph. Scary.
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Dude. I've SEEN that website. I wish I had the URL but del.icio.us didn't exist back when I saw it (what, a couple of years ago?)
I'd love to learn to DO this. Not to doctor photographs for the media, but to understand how it's done. And to make cool icons. *g*
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I saw the second and third one a few months ago, and it just pissed me the hell off. I used to argue that teenage girls should have to learn PhotoShop techniques in high school- sure, there's a good thing in learning a skill like graphics manipulation, but also... it would teach them in a non-pushy way just how manipulated and unrealistic and fucked-with everything they see in the media is.
I mean, sure, young boys could learn from that, too, but they aren't the ones having the same level of "you are what you look like-- and you should aspire to look like this" pushed onto them.
That said, I'll be showing my kids stuff like this as they get older and we can talk about it. I'm really careful of how I deal with the body image stuff in front of my kids... even though I'm on shakey ground with all that stuff personally, I don't want my sons growing up thinking that it's normal and acceptable for women to hate themselves and their bodies. I've dated enough dipshits who think it's perfectly acceptable for me to eat two pieces of lettuce while they wolf down a steak the size of my head... (I can think of two men who haven't been like that with me, actually) I don't want my sons becoming another two of those guys.
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I used to argue that teenage girls should have to learn PhotoShop techniques in high school- sure, there's a good thing in learning a skill like graphics manipulation, but also... it would teach them in a non-pushy way just how manipulated and unrealistic and fucked-with everything they see in the media is.
This is a great idea! The course could be "Photoshop and the Ad Industry: Things aren't as they seem" or something. Teach them the skills AND show them the deceptive media.
*uses Delenn icon because she's one kickass female*
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For the record I am hoping for a Sox-Cubs world series.
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