Go watch
this, especially if you have little girls (Warning: could be somewhat triggery for people with eating/body image disorders).
Also
This one, which actually had me close to tears.
This one really did make me cry. I
hate when that happens.
ETA: Fixed duplicate link.
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(I'm thinking you didn't mean this to happen, but the second one is the same link as the third one.)
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I'll look them up. Google Is My Friend. :) Also, fixed the link! I sent a link to the last video to
Actually, ALL these women are really beautiful ladies (Daughters Hannah and Mary, DIL Trish, and Trish's gorgeous Mum Marilyn, L to R). None of them fit the pattern of what's fashionable because none are inclusively tall, slender, and fine-boned. But gorgeous? You betcha, every one of them. And not just because they're awesome. *loves* And even if they were ugly (which is SUCH a subjective description), would that make them, or me, or you, less? Uh-uh. I have to remember that myself sometime when I look in the mirror and expect to see twenty-four and find forty-six staring me in the, um. Face.
I've been thinking more and more about how our very selves are formed very young and really would love to do something to help change the way children are taught to view themselves, and by extension other people. I'm a
victimsurvivor of bullying, so I'm really sensitive to pressures that kids Be "Normal", whatever that is. And sometimes "Normal" is impossible to achieve without a. Photoshop, b. Surgery, an c. Tons of money. And even with all those, there's really no such thing. :/no subject
Also, if you saw the three of them - Hannah, Mary, and Trish - and didn't know their ages, it would be hard to know who was oldest, etc.